1.) Always keep God as the center of the marriage relationship

2.) Learn how to listen and hear what each spouse is saying.
3.) Never go to bed angry.
4.) Always communicate difficult issues under favorable conditions
5.) Determine how decisions will be made in the household especially when the decision could have a major impact.
6.) Take time together as often as possible (date night, quiet time together, walk in the park etc.)
7.) Never let anyone or anything come between your relationship not even each other.
8.) Always talk to God about everything in-particularly when it comes to things that are beyond your ability and understanding concerning heart matters.
9.) Guard your thoughts against thinking bad things about your spouse.                                  10.) Remind each other when things are difficult that we are in it to win it.                             

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